There is more to sex than what happens behind closed doors between you and your husband. It is this thing that accounts for longevity of any marriage anywhere. You may ask;” What exactly is this thing?” Well, it is the most important of all things that happens in marriage – it is your ability to please your husband to his satisfaction. Pleasing your husband is a full-time job and sex is part of it.
You must be concerned with the way you look when you send your husband off to work and when you receive him back from office either in the evening or at noon day. You need to realize that wives should “always be lovers”, too. Jump into his arms the moment he shows up at the door. This makes him think there
is a peaceful, happy home and understanding wife to be with at home. At that moment his emotions are programmed for a great bedtime experience. This has been the most important capsule to heal and reclaim any ailing marriage to normality.
Many women that complain about insensitivity of their spouses are simply insensitive to the needs of their spouses. As a married marriage counselor for years; I have come to discover that, the best way to determined how your husband should treat you (The wife) in the day is best done in the night right behind closed doors. Give your man the satisfaction on the bed, and leave the rest as stories in the broad daylight. Any woman who can make a man as for more and more like Oliver Twists will have herself treated as Queen of his life in the bright daylight, and even before the public glare.
There are two ways to a man heart. First is through his mouth. Any woman who can cook delicious meal for a man has indirectly stolen away his heart. It does not matter the social hierarchy or economic class he belong. The second way to a man heart is through his waist. If you can show reasonable tender care and love to your man, then, you have secured a permanent resident visa for your self in that marriage. Men are very mindful when it comes to love making. He watches out to the facial impression and the general body responses of the woman during the act of intercourse.
Make your marriage glow with fun. Drop your man mysterious love note here and there -Do this very often, and maintain variety. Paste a note on the bed side for him before he wake up, and put another suggestive one for him on the walls of mirror in the bathroom. Make him know that you are completely in charge of him. Men are simply over grown babies and love to be pampered a lot. While he is still at the table for his breakfast, ease up fast into a very sexy short skirt or gown that unveils much about the uncaged elemental tools beneath to bid him bye for the day work. As he departs for work the memory of your sexy picture dominate his mind all through the day.
Do not forget to drop a secret love note in his suitcase or in the pocket of his clothes. Your man will miss you so much during the day at work, and as the evening begins to emerge his fantasy will run riot in his wild imagination. This way you woo your spouse to love you for life and secure your marriage.